Sorry for the late answer, but i was searching for the same thing and i ended up here.
AFAIK there is no way to do this, but all you have to do is change the order of your data.
your first plot data is "x": ["female", "male"], "y": [85.9507, 201.7915] so the bar with 85.95 is going to be the first one to render, simple as that.